Celeste Patten on November 15th, 2019

­­­­­My guilty pleasure is horse podcasts.  A common topic of conversation is the elusive connection between horse and rider. This is true in dog too. Ask any dog handler doing well at their chosen event, and they will tell you it’s all about the connection. Because after all the skills have been trained, what sets you and your dog up for true success and makes your performance really sing is that intangible thing: Connection.

As always, I see a direct connection to my pet dog training clients.  When clients ask for help with a recall or door manners or loose leash walking.  I know that they are really after a better connection. People don’t seem to see anything they do with their pet dogs as performance.  I am here to tell you that life is a performance! I mean, didn’t Shakespeare tell us “all the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players?”  Imagine if you will, that every walk, every trip to the bank or a friend’s house is the ring.  And in order to get the skills needed, people need to take care of that thing we call connection.  After all, that’s why I made it one of the three C’s of being a Clever Owner.

How do you create a culture of connection with your pet dog?

Do things together:
Keep taking classes and go to seminars. The team that learns together stays together. There are more dog seminars and classes going on than you think. Even if you are not working on the things in the class, take a class. Just going to class once a week and spending time together is a big deal.  Do a dog sport like low-key style. I have two suggestions for this:  My favorite sport for pet owners to try is Nosework. Believe me, you can do this sport low-key.  You can just do drop-in weekend classes, or have a friend set hides for you once a week and then buy them a coffee. Another way you can keep learning is to check out Fenzi TEAM titles.  You can work with a local trainer on these skills, or join the online community and work towards your title while never having to leave the house.

Play:
I cannot overstate the importance of play.  My favorite thing is getting on the floor and getting silly.  I let my dog lead the way.  Sometimes we fake face wrestle, sometimes I pretend die and he gets to be the big bad predator he thinks he is, and sometimes he just leans his head into me and wants neck rubs.  Either way, I ask him every so often if he is still into it.  Especially when I have my hands on him; I take them off and let him tell me if he’s still into it.  If you want to learn more about the power of play, check out Dr. Amy Cook’s work at playwaydogs.com.  She also teaches on Fenzi.

Practice Mindful Training:
Get in the zone together.  Let time stand still and focus on a shared task.  Mindfulness is sometimes also described as being in the zone, or a feeling of flow.  When you are deep in a training loop with your best friend and the world around you fades away, that is connection.  If you have ever played a team sport, you know the special connection you and your teammates have.  It’s because for a time you all shared a flow.  You can have that with your dog too.

Decompression:
It’s a current buzzword of modern training.  The basic “Get Outside” mantra. Nature heals. So, heal together. Going out to the woods or even an open field and walking your dog off lead or on a long line and letting them have some “dog time” is great for them, but sharing that experience is where the truth lies. Get a thermos of pumpkin spice latte or whatever you drink and take in the autumn air together. Do some Shinrin-Yoku  or “Forest Bathing” together.  Or head to the beach if you have one. Explore together. You can learn more about Decompression walking from Cog Dog Radio.

Date your dog:
Take it on the road. Sometimes I pack a lunch, my dog, and a book, and head out for the day. We drive one or two towns over and walk through local shops; often bookstores will allow well-behaved dogs. Remember, the bookstore is your show ring, so show off those skills. Then get a table at an outside café; read and chill together.  They can be some of the best days and they are what I will have with me long after my dog is gone. Make some memories together.

Daily reconnection:
Self care is something I try to work into my daily life. I do a face mask, I take a bath.  You do you. But what about your dog’s daily care?  I see my nightly “pet the dog on the couch time” as his chance for some light massage and contact comfort for both of us.  Take an online course in dog massage or find a local skilled canine massage therapist and ask them to teach you how to pet your dog with intention.

This can lean right into husbandry training.  Every day Jonny hops onto his grooming table and I take literally two minutes — even if it’s just to run my hands over him and give him some treats. If I need to brush him or work on a mat in his hair, this is when I would do it.  It is part of his daily routine. It allows me to build trust around touching his body.  As he ages, this might mean I will have to add wound care, or ear or eye meds to this routine. But guess what? That will be easy to add in, because we will have a baseline of trust to begin with.

And don’t forget that daily dose of play.

Celeste Patten on February 28th, 2019

Let me start off with a story: A few months ago I was walking a client dog through a local park when I heard someone calling their dog. The voice was angry and frustrated. The dog, which turned out to be a puppy, was running around and having a great time. As I passed by, the angry man finally captured the freewheeling puppy and smacked him on the butt and cursed the little fluffer out. This scenario alone would have broken my heart enough to take some time to get over, but when I looked away from the man and right into the eyes of a little girl watching this whole thing play out, I really lost it. When our eyes locked, my heart sank. I wanted to run to her and hug her. I wanted to take her and the puppy and tell them both that they are loved and valuable and safe. In her eyes I could see what I have learned so deeply over the course of my training career.

Side note: I am going to assume that if you are reading this blog, you recognize the wrong turns involved in this man’s recall work. That goes without saying, and this is not a blog about recalls.

This is a blog about how the choices this man (and all of us) make about training dogs are also impacting those around us, ourselves, and society at large. This recall scenario illustrates my point well. The girl, the man, and myself all have things bigger than the puppy at play, but the puppy was the fixed point around which we all spun in that moment.

In that moment I wondered, what did this little girl learn as a witness to this? That men are violent? That if you don’t do what you’re asked/told you will get hit? That it is okay to be violent when things don’t go your way? That it is okay to hurt animals?

I wonder what this moment said about the man and what we as a society can do to help him learn to express his frustration differently? Would learning to be gentle, patient and kind with this puppy help him to be a kinder, gentler, more patient parent or uncle? I am 100% sure it would. Even more, could he learn to be those things to himself? I believe he would have to internalize these concepts first to use them actionably outward to dogs and kids etc. Can dog training be an antidote to toxic masculinity? Possibly. It can for sure be an in-road.

What about me? Obviously, I cannot abscond with the child and puppy and live some utopian dream. I wanted to speak up but felt my voice silenced in my throat at the prospect of facing this angry and clearly violent man, especially with unsolicited advice. I have had men like this as clients. Usually they are the father/husband figure in the house. I often struggle with how to get them on board with my kinder more empathetic way of training. I have had doors shut in my face by men who could not deal. I am left feeling like a failure to not only the dog but to the man and every other person in the home. This weighs on me.

I think about how dog training is more than dog training at other times too…

It is more than dog training every time I teach kids how to ask permission from the dog before they touch – yes, even their own dog. We have a conversation that is really about bodily autonomy, consent, and respecting personal boundaries. I can only hope these conversations will be repeated by their parents. Can using consent-based dog training help young kids learn how to be better adults who will hear and heed boundaries with future friends and lovers? Yes, I think it can provide adults around them, i.e. all of us, these moments with dogs as teachable moments for larger concepts.

It is more than just dog training every time I talk to a woman with a dog who bites about setting firm boundaries. We talk about how they and their dog are not community property, and how they don’t owe anyone an explanation. We talk about how, “No!” is a full sentence, as the saying goes. Often these women have been told repeatedly their voice, their ‘No’ and their wishes don’t matter. These woman have told me some amazing survival and trauma stories.

If you are on a positive dog training journey then you are already part of the movement to change the world. Maybe you didn’t know it! Welcome. Every time someone sees you give your dog a treat for doing something right you are showing them it’s okay. It’s okay to give a compliment for a job well done to a coworker. Every time you take the extra time to use consent-based language to help a child ask the dog for permission to touch it, you teach them how to use this language in their own life. Every time someone sees you handle your dog’s mischief with patience you are showing them how to be patient with each other. These are big things. We are not always going to be perfect, so be kind with yourself but also remember to give yourself a pat on the back when you get it right. All we can do is try — try to ‘Live the Clicker Life’ as it is called in trainer lingo. If you want to talk about the struggles of living this life, reach out. Reach out to me, or any other positive dog trainer. Let’s talk about these things. Let’s change the world. In

Celeste Patten on December 15th, 2018

She didn’t know it, but my mom grew up with a unicorn and maybe you did, too.  Sometimes unicorns look like Labs, or Border Collies or German Shepherds.  My mom’s unicorn was Princess, a Boxer cross.  According to legend she came in a cardboard box; as is the genesis story of many a Unicorn-Dog. I grew up hearing stories about Princess.  Like the time Grams worked in the administration offices of a university and walked out for lunch only to see Princess riding around

in the backseat of  a convertible loaded with college students. No one asked if they could take her – She belonged to everyone and to herself.  They just picked her up like a friend and dropped her off on campus when they came back and she took herself home.

To better understand the family legend of Princess I took my grama out for coffee.  When I told her who I wanted to talk about she suppressed a chuckle and smiled to herself and told me she was just thinking about her the other day. She went on to tell me several stories I had not yet heard and verified some others.

She recalled stories of princess waiting for whole afternoons outside a store when an aunt or uncle of mine went in one door and out another.  Of the dog being shown around the town grocery store to prove my grama wasn’t there and then catching a ride home with the shop owner who knew where she lived.

The Last Dog Syndrome

Dogs like Princess are wonderful but they can give people the false belief that this is the default setting for being a dog. Any dog who comes after runs the risk of falling short of the legend who came before. Clients will say to me “but our last dog…” Or “But when I was a kid our dog…”. I don’t for a second think these stories are untrue, but I do think they are Unicorns. Elusive and sometimes truly the stuff of lore.  I often see the new and wholly wonderful pup or dog being held up to the image of a mythical beast as wonderful as a Unicorn-dog.  It is really quite unfair. They don’t stand a chance of measuring up.

Magical creatures are magic: when you are with one, enjoy the time, especially if you are lucky enough to recognize it while its happening.  But don’t discount every other dog or person because they can’t meet such a standard.  There is beauty and magic in all of us.

Memories and Expectations

My personal unicorndog Diane was perfect, beautiful and delicate.  Everyone loved her, I could take her anywhere and let kids pet her. All the things we dream of as dog people.  She was a thing of beauty. When she died, people had trees planted in her name and cried as much as I did.  Jonny, in his fluffy majesty, is amazing and has taught me many things already but he will never be her.  He will always be a bit too big, a bit too clumsy; he is not as easy to take out in the world.  But he is great just as he is. I love him with eternal devotion and will not compare him to the sainted memory of Diane.

 

 

Celeste Patten on October 17th, 2018

In my day to day life I drive a Prius because it’s economical and efficient. Last week I got to drive a Lamborghini Huracan on a real racetrack. As I’m sure you can imagine, those two cars handle quite differently! Of course I immediately thought of the canine parallel. I mean, have you ever noticed how much car talk is borrowed by the dog world? We talk about dogs having a handler (the person holding the leash — not necessarily the dog’s owner) and I have often heard of super-fast agility dogs being referred to as  “souped up” like a race car, via breeding or through controversial training methods. When I was in dog training school, Jean Donaldson assigned a young Border Collie named Zipper to me as my last training dog. She told me Border Collies are like Ferraris; when they work, it’s a beautiful thing to see, but they are always in the shop. What she most likely meant was that Border Collies are fast and fun to handle, but they are also fragile and can require a lot of maintenance, just like a sports car.

Jonny, my poodle mix, is  sweet, sensitive and fragile in his own way, but he is no Ferrari. I have a friend with a sport-bred cattle dog, and other friends who have competitive agility dogs. Those dogs are fast and flashy as hell. Jonny is great, but he will never be like them and I would never ask him to be.   Much like my friends don’t want their dogs to be Jonny; they want the speed and sex appeal of their flashy sports car dogs. I am glad we all have the dogs we want and appreciate them for who they are.

What does all this mean for you, my Clever Owners? I suggest you learn to drive the car you have. Learn how to be your dog’s best handler and get the best out of them. Don’t try to make them be something they are not. The most troubling thing to watch is someone trying to make a sweet calm lab be a fast herding dog, or vice versa.

Driving the Lambo was fun, but I’m glad it’s not what I drive daily. I also love working with my fuzzy Poodle mix, but when I get another dog I might get something a little sportier. Time will tell.  I will have to be willing to commit to the work of having and maintaining a sports car dog.

Celeste Patten on March 23rd, 2018

Clever Owners, what if I told you that you could play all of your dog’s problems away?  Would it sound too good to be true? I thought so too, but now I am a converted true believer. Earlier this month, I went to see Dr. Amy cook of The Play Way to learn about therapeutic play for dogs.  Dr. Cook holds a PHD from the University of California at Berkeley, and spent her time in graduate school conducting groundbreaking research on the dog-human relationship and the importance of play. She is a pioneer for sure. You can read more about her and her work here at Play Way Dogs.  Dr. Cook is a hilarious presenter who you should all check out if you get the chance.  She is lighthearted and irreverent, but what more could you ask for in someone who basically makes her living teaching people how to get down on the floor and play with their dogs?

The matter is simple enough — play! But like everything simple, doing it with ease and grace is complicated, and of course Dr. Cook makes it look easy.

First off, Dr. Cook redefines play — because, of course, there are many kinds of play.  She is not talking about fetch or tug or anything like that. For the most part (like everything, there are exceptions) she takes away your toys and food.  This is true social silly play — play for the sake of play play. So get ready to laugh and roll around and remember how to have a good time, just you and your bestie on the floor, like when you were both young and shiny.

This is an example that Dr. Cook used in her presentation to show some awesome play.

Like with everything, there are some rules of engagement.  The above video is so great because it follows all those “rules”.  Here is the simple outline for keeping your play within the lines:

Invitations: You must have consent. You can only invite — never force. But don’t be put off if your dog looks at you like you’re being weird – you are being weird! So ask. If they say no, try again another time.  Relationships take time to build. And remember, your dog is living in an arranged marriage that you set up for them.

The 3 second rule: You may not touch your dog for more than three seconds. Why? See above. No seriously,  you need to keep asking if your dog still wants to be doing this.  So sure — pet, cuddle, and then take your hands off. If they move back into you, then game on. If they don’t, or they move away, tell them you still love them and you can play later.

Predator vs. Prey – make sure you and your dog each spend time being both.  Dogs and people are both social predators by nature. So let your dog ‘get you’ sometimes; don’t hog the predator time by always saying “gonna get you,”. Remember to roll over and let your dog get you – squeal too it helps sell it.

To learn more, take this class online:  Dealing with the Bogeyman 

Or read Dr. Cook’s blog about Play Way here in her own words. 

So, Clever Owners, since Connection is one of the 3 C’s of being a Clever Owner, get ready to reconnect with your dog through play! I am happy to facilitate play sessions for you and your dog, and then help use that play to rehab your rover!

Celeste Patten on February 19th, 2018

Wait… what?  Why would you do that?  Well, you wouldn’t, or would you?  Poison, like many English words, has multiple meanings and uses, especially when it comes to slang.  In the current dog training parlance, “to poison” something (usually a cue — check out the Poisoned cue by Dr. Rosales-Ruiz) means to inadvertently punish something you intend to be a good thing, or at least a neutral thing. If you do this enough you make the something not trustworthy, unpredictable.

This brings us to the nature of a punisher: a punishment –and for that matter, a reinforcer — is defined by its function.  The learner (dog, horse, cat) will either do less or more of a behavior depending on whether they find what happens after the behavior fun or terrible – FOR THEM.

So how does this apply to food?

Well, say for example you want to get your dog into the crate that they don’t like being in (aside: you need to train that separately).  You offer them your hand full of chicken. Your puppy comes over and takes it.  Then you pick them up and put them in the crate. Eating chicken was just followed by the crate (a punisher in this scenario).  You have poisoned chicken, and by proxy you have poisoned their trust in you and what you offer, and even your outstretched hand. Because sometimes its just the chicken and sometimes its chicken and the crate.

I recently worked with a dog who would dart in, cower and run away from a hand that held out food.  My only explanation is that she must have been baited with food too many times to trust the hand that feeds her.  This made me and her owner so sad.  Now, I don’t know for sure if my theory is right because I can’t ask the dog. But I can  say that an outstretched hand of food has been at some point punishing for her, because the behavior — running up, loose and happy, to eat food — has been diminished (definition of punishment), and the behavior of avoidance and fleeing has been increased (definition of a reinforcer).

I also have recently been working with a dog who recalls in, takes her food reinforcer, and then flees. Why? I can only say that, for her, staying to see what happens after the food is given, has been punished.

So what is one to do?
Don’t bait. Train.
Understand that your dog will tell you if they are being punished or reinforced.
Listen to your dog.

Celeste Patten on December 11th, 2017

I have a favorite essay that doesn’t get talked about much, but which I think is very timely as we enter the season of giving. “Creating a Culture of Abundance” is part of a collection titled On My Mind, Reflections on Animal Behavior and Learning published by the much-beloved Karen Pryor. The book was published in 2014, and is not well known.  The essay I am referring to is a short two-page essay in which Pryor tells us of her friend Lynn who is a social worker. Lynn had started a program with her client families, most of whom were at risk for child abuse. In the program, the families trained shelter dogs once a week.  Lynn kept a big jar of candy on the table in the training room.  It was, of course, intended for the people to use with each other.  While they worked through their dog training projects, they were encouraged by the staff to reinforce each other with candy. The staff would also walk around and reinforce behaviors. Lynn is quoted as saying, “That big bowl of candy on the table is obviously more than we need, far more than we are going to use. There is plenty. There is more than plenty. That bowl in the room creates a climate where it is alright to be generous.”

Pryor goes on to say that stinginess is the enemy of clicker training. This has always stuck with me. In our culture where we are working to save more and spend less, and people talk about downsizing and minimalism, I often have to work very hard to get my clients to be generous with their dogs.  So as we are in the season of giving, I challenge you to give more to your dog.  Find all the moments they are doing something right and tell them with a click and a cookie even if they just walk by something and don’t jump up or put their paws on the table. Don’t take that choice for granted; pay for it. Be freehanded and generous with the reinforcers.  Create a climate of abundance for your dogs.  This does not mean cow ears and bones every night, although I’m sure your dog would love that too.  I mean chop the hot dogs even smaller and give “twice” as many cookies.  Create the culture. Give three pieces of hot dog where you would have given just one.  You can hold back that last bite of meat on your plate and give it later that night for an awesome recall.  Share and share alike.  Pryor reminds us at the end of the essay that like most things in dog training, we must also move this personal growth into our real lives. So give abundantly! To yourselves and your friends. Maybe this year you spend half as much on each gift and give twice as many.  Or give the gift of time with someone — a long, generous afternoon coffee with someone you care about. They will feel loved, and you will have spent the same amount of money on that cup of coffee as if it was a five-minute coffee with them. And don’t forget to be generous with yourself!  Let yourself take a nap instead of stressing about the holidays.  Create a culture of abundance and generosity with your dog, your friends, and yourself.

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Celeste Patten on November 10th, 2017

This week I saw two clients whose dogs have fairly serious behavior issues.  One had even bitten a human.  It’s a big deal.  These clients were overwhelmed and stressed, not only by their own everyday lives like all of us are, but now by the added pressure of their dog’s behavior issues.  It brought to mind one of the C’s of being a Clever Owner:  Care.  Let’s talk about care or caring.  The verb care means “to look after and provide for the needs of.”  As a human who owns a dog, you are responsible for the needs of yourself and your dog’s self. Why do we need to talk about self-care in a dog training blog? Well, mental health goes hand in hand with behavioral health.  And a large part of mental health is self-care. Meeting the needs of the self…. And your dog has self-care needs as well.  Often the root of  behavioral issues are unmet self-care needs of the dog.

First put on your own mask.

Self-help books are full of analogies for this idea. We’ll use the airplane oxygen mask analogy.  Part of my training plan for clients can be to get them to spend some time on their own self-care. You can’t possibly give 100% to your dog’s behavior needs if you are gasping for air. So put on your own oxygen mask first, just like they tell you to do on the plane.  Make a list of some things you can do for your self to feel cared for and ready to give to another – your dog.  Really.  Write it down. And if you don’t know what to write,  perhaps that in itself is a wake up call to get to know your self more.  Do you need quiet time to meditate and clear your head?  Perhaps you like to wander through a museum by yourself, or maybe you like to create and make art of your own.  I have a friend who puts on her headphones and listens to positive affirmations. Whatever it is, do it.  Your dog needs you to come fully prepared to be able to help them deal with their demons.

Now sign your dog up for a yoga retreat…. Wait….

Dogs need self-care but for them it obviously looks a little different.  Most importantly you have to ask them what to put on their list. It is, after all, their self we are tasked with the care of.  They might not sign themselves up for a yoga retreat or even a walk with you.  In fact, that might be what the stressful training session is about if your dog struggles with dog reactivity!  But they do often like some space to sniff on their own terms.  Maybe your dog loves to get down on a raw bone.  Jonny is in LOVE with cow ears.  I don’t love them but I know for a fact he does.  He literally flips for them.  It’s a blast to watch him with one.  He tosses it in the air and then pounces — it’s A-dorable.  He enjoys his walks, etc., but LOVES a cow ear.  He often gets them after a boarding dog leaves.  Hosting house guests is hard work for him and for his troubles he gets a cow ear night as a thank you for being a good host dog and sharing his stuff/beds/mom.  He also likes walks with dog friends, but he likes some dogs better than others.  So not every walk with another dog counts as a de-stressor.  I have a client dog he is friends with and rides in the car and walks with well. But it is not a self care moment by any means.  It is work.  That dog asks a lot of him.  Get to know your dog.  What would he do if he could for his/her self care?  Kongs, walks, snuffles, walks with a friend, dog walks with a special human friend?

Pay attention to how often you ask your dog to do things for you and how often you do things for them.  Remember to pay them back; being your dog is hard work!

A dog list might include: food toys, Snuffle mat time, bones, cow ears, Lap of Luxury, water treadmill, T touch, massage, nosework class, decompression walks (term coined by Sarah Stremming), chiropractic care, diet, friend time, acupuncture.

Your list might include: Therapy – to truly dig into the Self, massage, chiropractics, floating (it is amazing!), yoga, acupuncture, mani-pedi, diet – eating right and meal prep counts as meeting your own needs — learning to manage your time well, exercise, friend time, or alone time.

Celeste Patten on September 19th, 2017

While walking out of my yoga class one day, I struck up a conversation with the instructor about a particular asana, frustrated that I wasn’t able to reach a certain place in the pose.  He commiserated with me and told me he wasn’t able to either ten years ago.  The pep talk he gave me sounded a lot like the pep talk I give my students when they are frustrated with something they are not able to do as trainers.  Neither could I, I tell them, when I started.  Dog training, yoga, playing the piano — learning new skills as an adult is hard.

It’s a lot to learn to watch your dog, mark the right thing, feed the right way, hold the leash, and keep it loose.  And of course, do this all while walking.  It’s a skill set all its own. We call it dog trainer mechanics.  You get better with practice is always my answer.  Keep training.  Keep practicing.  I have been doing yoga consistently for a year now.  I can do things now that I would have laughed at last year, but I want to cry over what I still have yet to master.  Ten years.  Thousands of hours.  Whatever buzz phrase you use, the implication is it just takes time to get good at a new skill.

My yoga instructor was very encouraging, but he can’t do the work for me.  I still have to keep showing up.  I try to be encouraging to my students but, alas, I can’t do your work for you.  You still have to keep showing up for yourself and for your dog.

I have been training dogs for over a decade now. I am not the trainer I was in the beginning. I would not give the same advice today as I did to those early clients (sorry guys). I hope I feel the same way about today’s clients ten years from now (sorry guys).  I keep learning and so do you.  I promise that if you keep training your dog and keep taking classes from me, from the other great trainers in our area, or online, and keep reading books, you will not be the trainer you are today ten years from now — hell, even a year from now.

You also can’t rush the learning process.  That just makes it worse.  If I push too hard in yoga to get to a place my body isn’t ready for, I will injure myself.  If you push your dog or yourself into training places you are not ready for, you will injure your relationship and possibly your dog (this is seriously true for you with agility aspirations).

Find a good teacher/trainer/coach and then just keep practicing.  Show up to class, take weekend seminars.  Read the books and blogs we tell you about, and listen to the podcasts we tell you to listen to. But most importantly, have patience with the process.  You don’t get to set the pace, but you can keep returning to the game.  Every week/day for years, and you and your dog will get somewhere, together.  And the next dog will be a whole new ballgame.  You will not make the same mistakes, but you will make new ones.  And the learning will continue.

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Celeste Patten on July 24th, 2017

C is for Consequence.

In my previous two blog entries, we talked about antecedents, and then behavior.  Now it’s time to discuss the C in ABC — consequences.  I might be expected to get deep into the Four Quadrants of learning theory, various reinforcement schedules, and heated warnings against the use of punishers. But let’s start off with a quote from Dr. Susan Friedman’s paper, which we have been using for the series: “Consequences are the engine that drives the future strength of operant behavior — the very purpose of behaving.”

Let’s think about that.  The consequences of today drive the behavior choice of the future.  Animal trainers are a lot like gamblers — playing the odds, forever trying to tip the scale of another animal’s future choices in the direction we would prefer. With all this meddling in the brains and behavior choices of other sentient beings, comes the responsibility to use the least invasive approach — one that considers the subject’s experience first.  One that asks the following questions:  How will the application of the consequence I am using affect our future relationship and this puppy’s future world views?  Will this animal want to work with me again?  Will they feel free to explore their world and test things and be bold or scared in my presence?  Or will they be shut down and fearful when I ask them to do something, or hesitant to offer a new behavior?  Will they feel safe or less safe in their own world for my intervention?

About those pesky quadrants.  I think what trips people up the most is the “insider lingo.”  Every technical field has its jargon, and behaviorists are no different. Words are used differently than in lay speak.  For example:

  • Positive means to add (to give)
  • Negative means to subtract (to take away)
  • Punishments drive behavior down in frequency
  • Reinforcements drive behavior up in frequency

The key to it all is the understanding that the subject horse, cat, dog, or child decides how it all plays out. I am not going to go on a rant about punishers and how no one should ever use them.  The truth is they are one of the four quadrants because they exist.  They are a fact.  You can’t live a life free of punishers, and you will sure as hell drive yourself nuts trying to craft a world for your puppy that is free of them. I am also not going to try and sell you on why reinforcement works.  It just does.  Again, it is a quadrant because it is real. What I want to ask you, again, is what kind of relationship do you want to have with your dog?

For more on quadrants check out these links:
Why Positive Reinforcement ALWAYS Works by Sarah Stremming of The Cognitive Canine

This article on Operant Conditioning 

I know Jonny will experience punishers. I have seen it happen.  Sometimes I have unknowingly been involved. The idea I am asking us to wrestle with is this:  When you intervene and set up a training session, or place your dog in a situation,  what are you using as your intentional consequence?  The intention is the point.  If you knowingly deploy punishers, you will change behavior for sure — no behaviorist worth their salt would tell you otherwise. You will, however, also have a lasting effect on the psyche of that being – dog, parrot, cat, or donkey.  And if that punisher comes from you, then you have also had a lasting effect on their feelings about you.

I also know that Jonny has experienced the joy of winning, of solving a problem, and of managing for himself his own emotional inner world.  I have witnessed this and have set him up for it. Those moments where I have set him up for success and he looks at me with bright eyes and a self satisfied smile, I know – we’re good.  We are in tune, we are winning together.  His joy is my joy.  As his chaperone through this life and the intentional crafter of his experiences, I feel it is my responsibility to give him as many of these experiences as he can fit into his short trip on this rock with me.

So let’s dive into our three running examples.  I have listed all the types of consequences.  For me several of these options are off the table from the start.  You however will have to engage in your own personal journey to decide how you want to proceed.

Chewing:
A (Antecedent): Provide ample legal chewing options. Pick up off the floor things you don’t want chewed.
B (Behavior): Chewing — it’s a natural thing.
C (Consequences) – Possible options:
Punish: Yell at or some other intervention that is designed to scare a pup for chewing.
Prevent: Make sure all illegal items are not available. Restrict access to parts of the house that are too much for puppy to handle.
Redirect: Use a cheerful interrupter to stop the inappropriate chewing and send the pup to a legal outlet.
Reinforce: Toss a cookie or talk sweetly to a puppy who is chewing the right items.

Door greeting behavior:
A (Antecedent): The sound of the car in the driveway, the doorbell.  We talked about taking those out and creating a CER to those specific Antecedents (hear car: food) (hear doorbell: chicken).
B (Behavior): Jumping, etc.  Whatever the dog is currently doing or you want them to do.
C (Consequences) – Possible options:
Punish: Insert all old-school methods for anti-jump training; kneeing a dog in the chest, etc.
Prevent: Holding the dog back on a leash or behind a baby gate while visitors come in.
Redirect: Playing toy toss or giving puzzle toys to otherwise keep dog busy.
Reinforce: Mark and treat for four on the floor.  Train a hand target to strangers.

Target training:
A (Antecedent): You present your hand.
B (Behavior): Dog touches or does not touch the hand.
C (Consequence) – Possible options:
Punish: If they don’t touch the hand, a less than savvy trainer might want to give an Uh UH.
Prevent:  Not applicable.
Redirect:  Not applicable.
Reinforce: Mark and reinforce the hand target.

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